Showing posts with label amir. Show all posts
Showing posts with label amir. Show all posts

Tuesday, September 25, 2012

amir baca buku!!

assalamualaikum....

alhamdulillah, masih diberi peluang oleh Illahi bernafas walaupun kebelakangan ni tak berapa sihat disebabkan batuk yang on-off since sebelum puasa. lagi teruk kadang2 sampai semput and need inhaler. nasib baik x kena nebs. semua tu rezeki dari Allah. syukur Alhamdulillah....

lama tak update pasal budak bertiga ni, tapi hari ni nak cerita pasal Amir Asyraaf dulu lah...

rasanya dia semakin aktif n 'nakal'. kalau dia nak sesuatu dia nak2 jugak walaupun dah banyak kali marah n sound dia.

sangat obses dgn TOY STORY 3. sampai dah hafal dialog. pastu asyik rewind n forward. mmg habis punah jahanam le dvd tu.

still nak poo dalam diaper gak tapi cakap "nak berak toilet"! *mommy tepuk dahi!*

but one thing yang mommy really proud, he can read the whole book depan kawan2. good job my hensem n clever boy!

dah banyak word yang keluar dari mulut dia. kalau nak mintak apa2 gesture (seperti ambil botol air) dan kata2 (nak mango!). sekarang ni buat approach, kalau tak cakap nak apa tak nak layan...paksa gak dia bercakap

kalau tangan dia tak occupied dgn something e.g handphone, tablet, his magnetic alphabet, books, etc, mesti dia nak masuk tangan dalam mulut. kalau dia geram or marah pun sama gak, mesti nk gigit tangan!!! alahai anak omak....

ok, enuff for this post...wassalam...

amir lepak dalam besen sambil main handphone


 

Sunday, January 8, 2012

my autism note - #2



Muhammad Danial pelajar autisme pertama negara dapat 9A

KUALA TERENGGANU 22 Dis. - Biarpun mengalami masalah autisme, ia tidak menghalang pelajar Sekolah Menengah Kebangsaan Agama (SMKA) Sheikh Abdul Malek, Muhammad Danial Zainuddin, 16, memperoleh keputusan cemerlang 9A dalam peperiksaan yang diumumkan hari ini.

Lebih membanggakan, dia bukan sahaja memperoleh keputusan 9A malah diumumkan pelajar autisme pertama di negara mendapat kejayaan seumpamanya.

Muhammad Danial mula dikesan mengalami autisme ketika usianya dua tahun apabila sukar berkomunikasi dan menyesuaikan diri dengan persekitaran selain bersifat hiperaktif.

Muhammad Danial ketika ditemui di sini hari ini memberitahu, dia gembira kerana berjaya memperoleh keputusan cemerlang itu biarpun dia tidak normal seperti rakan-rakan lain.

"Memang saya pelajar autisme tetapi saya juga suka belajar seperti pelajar lain dan setiap hari hanya satu mata pelajaran saya mampu mengulang kaji dan setiap kali habis menelaah saya akan ingat semua apa yang dibaca dengan mudah.

"Saya sangat gembira mendapat keputusan ini dan sudah tentu ibu, bapa dan guru juga gembira," katanya.

Anak sulung daripada tiga beradik itu merupakan satu-satunya pelajar pendidikan khas yang mengambil peperiksaan tersebut di sekolah tersebut dan dia juga pernah menerima anugerah Tokoh Pelajar sempena Hari Guru peringkat negeri dua tahun lalu kerana memperoleh 5A dalam Ujian Pencapaian Sekolah Rendah (UPSR).

Dalam pada itu, ibu bapa pelajar autisme tersebut, Ruzina Mohd. Ikram, 46, dan Zainuddin Muhamad, 46, meraikan kegembiraan berganda apabila seorang lagi anak mereka yang juga adik kepada Muhammad Danial, Nurul Diana, 15, yang menduduki peperiksaan itu juga memperoleh keputusan cemerlang yang sama.

source: here

my autism note - #1

source: here


Empowering the disabled


Parents, advocates and caregivers across the nation are of one heart and mind that more can be done for the learning disabled community. Here is their wish list.

Teh Beng Choon, chairman, National Autism Society of Malaysia

We, as parents and advocates, need to continue to speak up for the learning disabled, particularly in the area of education. The education system has to better serve children with special needs and those with disabilities.

While some of these students have done very well in school, their achievements have been largely attributed to the commitment of their parents and supportive carers. I wonder how large a role the special education facilities play in their achievements as my own observation tells me that many children with special needs or disabilities drop out before even completing primary school.

The ministry should immediately implement Individual Education Programmes (IEPs) for every special child in school, and review the IEPs every quarter. Remedial facilities should also be implemented so that no child is left behind.

Many children with learning disabilities struggle with the mastery of language. To demand that they be educated in a language that is not one that they have mastered is to deny them the education and recognition that they need.

Our education system does not leave room for parents to choose the kind of education they want for their children. While we recognise the need for the nation to guide the development of its citizens and prepare the youths to meet and participate in national development plans, the strategies employed must not stifle development outside these goals nor deny the development of individuals who cannot fit into the greater plan.

There needs to be a liberalisation of our education system so that students can pursue fields of study where they can excel in and contribute, in the language of their choice and in an environment of their choice, be it in a public school or in a communal or home setting.

The cost of bringing up a special needs child or Orang Kurang Upaya(OKU) as defined by the Social Welfare Department, is much more than that of bringing up an able-bodied child. To help OKU to reach their full potential, the Government should consider implementing a Corporate Social Responsibility policy to make education free for all OKU up to the tertiary level in both public and private institutions of higher learning. These institutions must set aside 1% of their intake for OKUs and fund their education. All institutions of higher learning are encouraged to set up offices to support disabled and special needs students as provided for under the 10th Malaysia Plan.

A wish for 2012: PWD advocates like Teh Beng Choon, Chng Cheng Hui and Khor Ai-Na hope that remedial facilities will be implemented so that no special needs child is left behind.

Research has shown that people with learning disabilities fare better in an inclusive environment. In line with this, the Education Ministry should ensure that a least one school in every district must have inclusion programmes for disabled children.

Families are naturally protective of their special needs children. As such, most will not send their children to the special schools set up by the Government although full board and lodging is available. Commuting to these schools is a struggle for both the OKU and their carers. The Government must study the needs in every district and provide the necessary facilities in every district to cater for those OKUs who cannot attend regular school.

Non-governmental organisations (NGOs) provide an invaluable service to OKU throughout the country, filling in gaps in social service delivery and advocating for the rights and interests of the communities they serve. They also provide feedback to the authorities for planning and policy-making, and bring together Corporate Malaysia, the rakyat and the Government to improve the status of OKU in the country.

However, most NGOs are hard pressed for funds and often operate from ill-maintained rented premises. To assist NGOs, state governments must commit to build and maintain a community centre in every district to house deserving NGOs to deliver services to the OKU community.

Autism is a life-long disability that has no cure. The incidence of autism is reported to be on the rise in most countries. The latest research finding shows that autism affects 1 in every 38 children. Yet in Malaysia, autism is not treated as an urgent issue that warrants government attention.

I know of many well qualified professional parents who quit their jobs to look after their autistic children. The cost of autism is very high for the individual, the affected families and the nation as a whole. We have requested for funding from the Government for an epidemiological study to be done in Malaysia, as well as funding for research projects for the early detection of autism. I hope this wish will be granted in 2012.

Chng Cheng Hui, executive secretary, Society of Families of Persons with Learning Disabilities

There should be on-site health checks for persons with disabilities (PWDs) who have difficulty going to hospitals. A mobile medical team should be set up to provide this service. There should also be “Equipment Loan Centres” to assist PWDs own equipment that can help enhance their quality of life.

The Government’s allowance for gainfully employed PWDs should be made accessible through ATMs. Presently, they are required to go to the nearest Bank Simpanan Nasional branch to withdraw the money personally. If they miss the deadline, they will have to go to the Social Welfare Department in KL to explain their case to get their allowance.

PWDs should be granted free access to public amenities (such as transportation) and recreational premises.

For parents of PWDs, the Government should provide financial and skills training assistance to encourage them to start rehabilitation services for their children.

The Government should consider giving a monthly allowance (of RM500) to families taking care of PWDs as well as provide free health care to parents of PWDs.

Government agencies should set aside a small budget for sourcing required items from NGOs. There are plenty of items produced by NGOs that government agencies could buy. Some examples are handicrafts for door gifts, soap, and cakes and cookies.

The Government should also grant tax exemption status to NGOs serving PWDs..

Khor Ai-Na, chief operating officer, Asia Community Service, Penang

We hope that our learning disabled children will have a smooth transition when they start formal schooling after graduating from early intervention programmes. We hope for school heads and teachers to be more compassionate and considerate, and give our children a chance in mainstream schools instead of pushing them straight to classes with special education programmes (as these classes segregate them from the rest of the students in school).

We also hope that families do not have to beg for services or schools of their choice, and that the teacher assistant programme will be extended outside the Klang Valley.

Tan Pek Yimm, committee member, Autism Support Association for Parents, Ipoh

The association set up a school to meet the needs of autistic children three years ago. Although we have many parents who are interested in enrolling their children in our school, we are unable to meet the demands as we are a small set-up. We have 10 students and our biggest challenge is to recruit teachers and teacher aides. We hope to attract more teachers; at present there are only three of us. Of course, more funds will help considerably.

This year, we are expanding beyond academics. We are looking at enhancing living skills. As such, we are introducing baking and wood crafting classes.

One Voice is a monthly column which serves as a platform for professionals, parents and careproviders of persons with learning difficulties. Feedback on the column can be sent toonevoice4ld@gmail.com. For enquiries of services and support groups, please call Dignity & Services ( 03-7725 5569).

What will the future hold?

Roselind Wee and Charles Siaw, Kuching Autistic Association

We hope for more support from the Government and the public. Social services should be more extensive. We hear of the services available from our friends who have migrated overseas and we yearn for these services – such as the provision of speech therapists, psychologists and teacher aides for the learning disabled – to be made available here, too.

Transportation needs to be provided for the disabled as they are not able to take public transport or the school bus. My husband and I have to fork out RM400 on transport alone for our autistic child and that is a huge chunk of our salary.

There is a need for respite care for parents whose children are severely disabled. This is to enable them to take a break so that they can recharge themselves to carry on the burden of caring for their family members who are not able to care for themselves.

Presently the range of services provided by the Government is limited. Parents have to pay for such services from their own pockets. These include expenses for special diets, vitamin supplements, speech therapy and other types of therapy. Presently parents can only claim a sum of RM5,000 as tax relief which is hardly sufficient. The amount of tax relief should be increased to RM20,000 per annum.

When we are gone, what will the future hold for our disabled child? This is an issue that haunts us. Even if we leave him money, he does not know what to do with it. We worry that he will be cheated and dumped somewhere. Will he roam the streets feeding on leftover food? Every time we pass by a man sleeping on the street, we wonder whether that will be the fate of our child when we depart from this earth. This is the deepest heartache of any parent. Unless you are in a similar position, you can’t imagine the pain and suffering we go through.

How can we as parents leave them in this world knowing that they cannot fend for themselves? Therefore, our wish is that the Government will spend more on providing care for autistic people, particularly the severely handicapped ones.

Monday, November 14, 2011

syukur alhamdulillah...


on 12112011 - around pukul 9 pm, tetiba dengar bunyi toilet flush
mr HA a.k.a. incik boss terus melaporkan amir tgh pakai seluar

subhanallah, maha suci Allah akhirnya doaku termakbul juga



mmg amir dah toilet train lama dulu di sekolah tapi dia got problem bila masuk toilet tapi tak nak kenc***
akhirnya kat school NASOM dia berjaya masuk toilet n kenc***
weekend baru ni, mommy mmg toilet train dia betul2 n the outcome mmg mengujakan
but malam, mmg tak berani lagi biar dia tidur diaperless
semoga amir akan cepat pandai menguruskan diri sendiri

mommy really proud of u!!!!

tapi jangan jadi macam ni sudah le...



and never do this too....


image from google


Sunday, February 6, 2011

"wa ina tumsalam mommy.."

last friday, mommy saje je cakap kat amir...

"assalamualaikum amir..."
tetiba dia jawab..
"wa ina tumsalam mommy.."

terkejut jap....alhamdulillah dah ada respond
tak sia2 asyik cakap2 ngan dia

tapi yang lawaknya bila atuk bagi salam pun dia jawab
"wa ina tumsalam mommy.."

mommy gak dapat nama...hehehehe


Sunday, January 30, 2011

update setelah 3 bulan bersawang...


lama betul tak update kat sini..
kat main blog ada le gak tapi itupun cilok2 masa...

apa yg budak ber3 ni dah buat

AMIR
suprisingly, dah pandai baca banyak word
kisah amir banyak mommy tulis kat sini
makan still memilih
still on diaper
will be enroll to NASOM kuantan starting march

IRFAN
sangat pot pet
makin garang. kita marah dia, dia marah kita semula
makan banyak, poop pun banyak
still on diaper gak
to be enroll to IIUM educare starting march

AISYAH
sangat manja
dah kenal org, dia nak kat mommy and mak(nanny) dia je
dah ada gigi sebatang
sangat kuat makan
prefer homemade porridge than nestum or rusks
dah pandai bye bye


Monday, August 2, 2010

amir is 4!!!

ntah apa2 mommy ni...
maternity leave 60 hari tapi lupa buat special entry for amir's birthday!!!
yes, amir is entering the 4th year of his life on 15th july 2010...
alhamdulillah amir semakin besar, sihat n clever!!!
mommy doakan amir berjaya di dunia dan akhirat, jd anak yang soleh dan belajar rajin2...


I LOVE U!!!

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

progress amir n irfan-during my 39w of pregnancy

mommy sekarang ni dah sarat sangat...nak jalan pun tak larat sangat tapi kerja rumah tetap kena buat gak...kalau tak sian kat abah...

beberapa hari lepas, lepak ngan amir sambil baca2 buku animal. memangle mommy selalu gak baca kan dia ABC..tapi tgk dia tak le pay attention sangat. but while mommy keep on nyanyi ABC kat dia, amazingly he knows the letter..ho pointed at the letter and sebut tu huruf apa....mommy sangat impressed.... mommy believed that amir is very sharp n sangat mudah nak ingat sesuatu mende tu walaupun sangat susah amir nak verbally sound them back...
tapi sekarang ni vocab amir dah sangat banyak....amir dah pandai mintak "nak koko krunch!"
mommy tiap2 hari doa supaya amir cepat cakap, diaperless n dengar arahan....
amir jangan le noty2. bila mommy n abah say NO, amir jgn buat gak...nnt bila amir kena babab kan sakit.....amir demam skrg ni, mommy mmg sangat risau. hopefully amir akan cepat recover. tapi mommy tahu amir sgt cool...bila datang time 'terlebih gula' tu je yg mommy tak larat nak handle...kalau ada rezeki nnt mommy beli iPod Touch...nnt kita share main sama2 kay???? mommy nak suh amir belajar betul2...next month amir will be 4!!!!

irfan plak semakin ngada2 n poyo....mommy tau irfan buat perangai sbb irfan nak dapat adik. irfan selalu jeles ngan abg amir bila dia manja ngan mommy n abah....selalu ketuk abg amir... jangan le buat camtu!!! irfan ada sorang tu je abang...jangan le garang sangat...walupun irfan ada adik nnt, mommy akan tetap sayang irfan sama je...of course le masa mommy ngan irfan akan kurang sikit tapi believe me, irfan tetap 'mocel' mommy yang musyuk masyam....

kalau mommy kat ofis mmg bila tgk gambar irfan ngan abang amir, mmg hilang semua rasa tension mommy....both of u really make my day!!! hopefully dgn kehadiran baby aisyah nnt, kita semua akan makin happy.....

bila mommy baca kisah kiddos lain pasal progress diaorang dari segi percakapan, their progress, apa yang mak bapak diaorg banggakan mmg kadang2 membuatkan mommy terpikir, apa salah aku? aku salah didik ke? kenapa anak2 aku tak macam nak org lain? tapi mommy reverse balik, i did my best to raise both of u and i will never retreat!!! mommy percaya korang akan membuatkan mommy proud satu hari nanti, korang akan jadi anak2 yang soleh kepada mommy n abah yang akan sentiasa mendoakan kami.. the time is just not right yet!!!! biarlah org lain.... both of u are our precious, our gems....semoga makbul doa mommy, amin.....


Monday, May 17, 2010

TOYOTA VIOS
NIKON
VARILUX
KFC
SONY
WALKMAN
amir asyRAAF
irfan iskanDAR

new words of amir....
he can also count one to ten tapi dalam version malu2...

hari ni pegi jumpa speech therapist..


Wednesday, April 21, 2010

amir's progress

amir's new words:

1. koko krunch
2. home
3. upin ipin
4. opek
5. wa-ee-ta-wa (waalaikumussalam..)

hahahahahaha


Sunday, March 21, 2010

amir nak pegi mana?

before this, kalau tanya amir, dia nak pegi mana or dari mana, jawapan dia mesti "kayh-ell"

mommy pun ajarle amir bukan "KL", but "school" or "home"

alhamdulillah, sekarang ni dia dah nak pegi "koool"....

mommy sangat suka!!!
:D ngeeeeee


Tuesday, March 9, 2010

dari KL...

sekarang ni kalau tanya amir...
"amir dari mana?"
dia akan jawab,
"Kay - Ell (KL)"

cheh!!! amir orang kuantan le.......

cute sangat amir...mommy loves u!!!!

Monday, January 25, 2010

BESAR PUNYA!!!!

self-captured photo


lama tak update blog ni....
main blog pun payah nak update ini plak blog yang lagi satu ni...
b4 this asyik cite pasal Irfan Iskandar je...
kali ni cite pasal Amir Asyraaf plak..
so, dah masuk 3 bulan pegi school, amir dah banyak improvement
skrg ni pegi school mmg bukan masalah bg dia.
tak kira, dah lama dok umah ke, hantar lambat ke ambik lambat ke, no problem
turun je kereta, dah tahu mana nak pegi
mommy really proud of u!!
sekarang ni pun byk mende yang dia dah pandai ajuk, esp from iklan TV
e.g:
BESAR PUNYA!!! = "TA, NYE!"
STAR WORLD = "TA WER"
DAIA = "DAI-YA"

tapi tantrum dia pun kengkadang membuatkan kami hilang sabar gak...
some words dia dah kenal cuma masalahnya dia taknak cakap. kalau kita sebut, dia akan tunjuk which one....photographic memory dia quite good!
i know and i admit that my amir is special in his own way...doctorn therapist pun still tak leh define what is his actual problem
we just hoping n praying for the best for him. we just have to believe in him...

last saturday baru botakkan kepala dia...walaupun tak berapa hensem tapi nampak dia selesa.. bila dah botak ni...nampak sgt bulu mata dia yg panjang tu!!!
still tak berjaya ambik gambar dia...nanti le. tak larat nak berebut camera ngan dia...almaklumle mommy dah semakin memboroi ni...hehehehehe

marilah sama2 doakan supaya amir jadi anak dan manusia yang sempurna fizikal n mental. menjadi hamba Allah yang taat dan anak yang soleh.....amin ya rabbal a'lamin...

I LOVE YOU AMIR!!!!!!

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

amir @ UMW Toyota

masa ni kami 3 beranak pegi sana untuk ambik kereta baru abah...irfan tinggal ngan nenek.
amir was having great time there n buat macam rumah sendiri...
kat sana banyak mende favourite dia , i.e; books, computers, large space....
sambil gonggong botol.....cheh!



Monday, August 31, 2009

WWW

sekarang ni amir suka sangat ngan 3 huruf tu....'www'
sekarang ni bila dia jumpa www tu, mesti dia suh kitaorg bacakan contohnya, "www.sony.com.my", etc
pastu mesti dia gelak gile2..excited sangat...

mommy seronok!!!


Monday, August 3, 2009

mommy work....

semenjak dua menjak ni, amir selalu nangis kalau mommy nak pegi keje...
memang pagi2 mommy yang hantar amir n irfan kat umah nenek before off to work...
sekarang ni, dia selalu nangis and tarik mommy tak bagi pegi keje or tarik tangan suh bawak dia sekali. sebelum2 ni, si kenit irfan tu yang melalak...amir relax je minum susu tapi sekarang sudah terbalik...
pagi td keluar dari mulut dia "ami wek!!!" (mommy work...)
sebelum pegi keje aku selalu pesan kat dia jangan noty2, mommy nak pegi work...
hopefully dia akan selalu cakap banyak2....aku tau dia paham a lot of things tapi susah nak deliver verbally.....
amir, cakap le cepat2 ekkk..mommy tak sabar nak borak2 ngan amir
adik irfan pun dah2 le cakap bahasa jerman tu...nnt kita semua boleh zikir n nyanyi sama2...



Wednesday, July 15, 2009

a session with the birthday boy

my 3 year-old boy who is:
  • still drinking milk with bottle
  • sucking his bantal busuk
  • fobia with nasi
  • obsesse with mommy's handphone
  • hate certain TV ads
  • smackdown mommy but not abah
  • push his brother irfan sampai terlentang
  • like to smile a lot lately and cry a lot too...
mommy and abah will always love u. u will always be my baby...

Ya Allah ya Tuhanku....
kami memohon padaMu agak memberikan kesihatan yang baik kepada anak kami, zahir dan batin, fizikal dan mental. jadikanlah mereka hamba Mu yang soleh dan selalu taat mengerjakan suruhanMu ya Allah. jadikanlah mereka anak2 soleh yang selalu mendoakan kami. jadikanlah mereka manusia yang berguna kepada agama, bangsa dan negara...
Rabbana atina fiddunnia hasanah waqina a'zabannar, amin amin ya Rabbal a'lamin....


Sunday, July 12, 2009

amir....now and then

then....complete set of teeth
so happy!!!!




now.....gigi dah takde!!huhuhu
benang still tak abis tanggal
but still happy! tak marah pun abah bukak mulut dia...



walau apa pun, amir tetap handsome boy!

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